有一天,男人問女人“你說,愛的最高境界是什麼?”
女人想了想,說:“是生與死吧~! 你想啊~!一個人可以為另一個人去死,還不是愛的最高境界嗎?” 男人點了點頭,又搖了搖頭,開始時他也是這麼認為的。
因為許多的愛情最壯烈的時候總是會和生與死聯系在一起的。
那些流傳千古的愛情無一不是生生死死,總之悲情者居多。
可是,更多的俗人之間的愛情卻只有平常的愛與恨、只有平常的悲傷與快樂。
“那你說是什麼?”女人問。
男人笑了,“是習慣,當你習慣了一個人生活中的習慣,你就真的愛上他了。”
愛情是一個人對另一個人習慣的認同。
愛到最高境界就是認同了他的習慣。
一個女人習慣了一個男人的鼾聲,從不適應到習慣再到沒有他的鼾聲就睡不著覺,這就是愛! 一個男人習慣了一個女人的任性、撒嬌,甚至無理取鬧、無事生非,這就是愛!一個人會為了另一個人去改變、去遷就,這就是愛! 愛情的哲學有時候就是這麼簡單,就在生活的點滴裡。 你如果始終不能適應一個人,適應他的所有習慣,那只說明你沒有愛他。 或者說你還未到愛的境界,因為愛就在這些細節裡。當你已經習慣你的愛人所有習慣,比如他衣服的煙草味,比如他干淨的襯衣, 比如他半夜起來看足球,如果這些你都已習慣,那麼不要再問愛是什麼這樣愚蠢的話題了。愛,有時候就是這麼簡單、樸素。
它像一杯在我們身邊的白開水,伸手可及,喝了,讓我們覺得涼爽舒服。
(故事来源:地球之家http://longee.5d6d.com/)
星期四, 十月 30, 2008
找到工作了 Find My Own Job
今天,收到图书馆马华文学馆职员的通知,知道我被录取了,感觉棒极了。。。
Today, I received library Mahua Literature Collection Centre note, I knew I would become a student worker in Mahua Collection Centre. I felt very happy.
这是我最重要的一份工作。我告诉自己,要好好把握,不要玩玩,要认认真真,尝试自己养活自己。。。
This work was very important to me. I said to me, I want to hold very good, could not play only. I must to take seriously, try to gain money for me.
因为明年自己就21岁啦!!!
Because next year I will become a 21 years old people!!!
Today, I received library Mahua Literature Collection Centre note, I knew I would become a student worker in Mahua Collection Centre. I felt very happy.
这是我最重要的一份工作。我告诉自己,要好好把握,不要玩玩,要认认真真,尝试自己养活自己。。。
This work was very important to me. I said to me, I want to hold very good, could not play only. I must to take seriously, try to gain money for me.
因为明年自己就21岁啦!!!
Because next year I will become a 21 years old people!!!
星期三, 十月 29, 2008
星期二, 十月 28, 2008
展览弄完啦!!!
今天的工作,就是为即将来临的校庆展览做东西。
我搬鼓。。。
我挂展览板。。。
是累的。。。
不过很开心。。。
最近,突然好爱喝牛奶。。。
尤其爱上HL鲜奶。。。
人间美食。。。比不过一杯牛奶。。。
哈!!!
Today, I want to stay in college and prepaid about an exhibition on college celebration.
I moved some drum and hung some presentation sample. I felt little tire, but I felt happy.
Latest, I liked to drink milk, liked my baby time. Especially, I liked to drink HL white milk. I think many food in this world, no better than a cup of milk. Haha!!!
我搬鼓。。。
我挂展览板。。。
是累的。。。
不过很开心。。。
最近,突然好爱喝牛奶。。。
尤其爱上HL鲜奶。。。
人间美食。。。比不过一杯牛奶。。。
哈!!!
Today, I want to stay in college and prepaid about an exhibition on college celebration.
I moved some drum and hung some presentation sample. I felt little tire, but I felt happy.
Latest, I liked to drink milk, liked my baby time. Especially, I liked to drink HL white milk. I think many food in this world, no better than a cup of milk. Haha!!!
星期一, 十月 27, 2008
今天,收到一位朋友的email,里面有一个附加文件,是docx档的。
偏偏我的电脑就是无法开启docx档的文件。。。
自己到网上找,费了半天才给我找到能够将docx档转换成doc档的软件。。。
气死我啦!!!
In this morning, I received a friend' s email. This email had a attachment, was a docx file.
I was very unhappy because my computer couldn' t open docx file...
I only went on line to look. I also spent half of the day and at last I found a software and it could change docx file to doc file...
so I was very angry!!!
偏偏我的电脑就是无法开启docx档的文件。。。
自己到网上找,费了半天才给我找到能够将docx档转换成doc档的软件。。。
气死我啦!!!
In this morning, I received a friend' s email. This email had a attachment, was a docx file.
I was very unhappy because my computer couldn' t open docx file...
I only went on line to look. I also spent half of the day and at last I found a software and it could change docx file to doc file...
so I was very angry!!!
星期日, 十月 26, 2008
星期六, 十月 25, 2008
My favourite poem
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
This is my favourite poem in secondary school......
星期五, 十月 24, 2008
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